When it comes to love and relationships, the EGO is what keeps us from true connection and intimacy with one another. It doesn’t allow us to be present or fluid with ourselves or others to find truth. The ego wants to CONTROL and FIXATE on what feels safe, versus venturing into the unknown. Feeling safe means not putting yourself out there, so you never have to get hurt.
WE ALL LONG TO BE SEEN FOR WHO WE TRULY ARE. The greatest gift you can give someone is to SEE them who they really are and LOVE them as they are. They may have forgotten who they are, so rather than judge, condemn, and trying to change, simply see who they are and reflect that back
Throughout life, there are times when you must leave what you know and venture into the unknown. Instead of staying with what’s familiar, step out and follow your instincts. Your intuition is your EXPERT GUIDE to accompany you on your new journey.
YOU ARE NOT AVERAGE. God has planted seeds of greatness on the inside of you. If you’ve been through a lot of negative things in the past, it just means that your future is bigger and brighter and greater than you can even imagine. It’s your time to step out and embrace all that God has for you!
If you don't like who you are attracting into your life or what you are attracting from your current partner, trying to change the other person is a recipe for major suffering and frustration. Trying to control your partner to be a certain way in order for you to be happy is a futile waste of time. What you do have control over and can change is yourself. As YOU change, then so will the potential partners that you attract and are attracted to.