LET’S BE REAL, no relationship is perfect because none of us are perfect. But you can have a healthy, fight-free and blame-free relationship when you’re committed to looking deeper into the root of the issues that arise along the way. How, you ask? By getting curious and asking yourself “How might I be contributing to these negative feelings inside of me?” When you get REAL honest with yourself, you gain clarity and realize the actual reason why you’ve been triggered and what’s been holding you back all this time from healing your past hurts.
Very often, you can see potential in others that they can’t see in themselves. When you speak vision into them, when you tell them what they can become, you can help set the direction for their life. Your words have the power to push them into their divine destiny.
Are you facing a situation right now that looks impossible? Don’t get discouraged and give up because God wants to do something awesome in your life. Instead of talking to God about how big your problems are, TALK TO YOUR PROBLEMS ABOUT HOW BIG OUR GOD IS. Remember, even if you don’t see how things could ever work out, GOD DOES.
Triggers within a relationship have really nothing to do with your partner. They actually have everything to do with your formative years regardless of the kind of family situation you came from (more specifically your relationship and experiences with your parents, guardians, etc.). Really understanding those triggers, like where they originated, and how they play out in your relationship is the starting point that changes everything in your life. #lovedoctor
Do you wake up in the middle of the night with an aching heart, knowing that there is something missing in your life? Is this YOU? Are you doing your best to cover up the way you currently feel about yourself and your life while you figure things out on your own? Do you long to live with joy every single day and to have a fun-filled life? If the answer is YES, I can definitely help get you there. I’m passionate about helping you attain everything you desire in life. It’s my mission and my calling.
You attracted your partner because your souls have certain things to teach each other. The purpose of a relationship is to serve each other’s soul growth, learn those lessons, and become the most authentic version of yourself. So when you understand the real purpose of a relationship, then you also understand that inevitably issues are likely to come up in the relationship, in order to be healed. You are both human beings with “stuff”. It’s not about IF, but HOW you both deal with and work through those issues that make the difference.
Do not seek revenge. Remember that you can’t cheat life, and what goes around must come around. You do not “win” by spending your energy trying to make the person that hurt you pay for what they did. Simply bless them and move on. Forgiving them does not condone what they did. It does however set you free, free to live your best life! Nothing is worth your freedom!